Relationship is a complex game.

January 2, 2013      

 On one of my most-awaited interactions, Pete and I were just having a chit chat and I asked whatever happened to our common friend and her relationship with that tribal chieftain. He said that he had no idea and it’s been a while since he last talked to her and so did I. Then I uttered that people need to realize that love is a simple thing. Pete disagreed with me and told me that love is a complicated thing and he keeps on saying about emotions and other sorts of things I find irrelevant.

After quite some time, I realized that Pete is still not right. I still stand on my ground that love is a simple thing. It is actually, relationship which goes with love or loving that is complicated.

Relationship is a complex game and people are its players. Some players join games plainly for fun. They do not mind winning or losing, what is important is that they are in the game. That’s why, after sweating it out a little and making little efforts, players find it easy to let go like the game never happened at all. Some players enter a game unprepared but never would you see in their eyes any speck of nervousness. For them, playing is just part of life. They never see its complications or they never see at all, they are blind. Some players enter a game armed and ready and yet they are nervous for they know in their minds that no matter how well you play the game, there will always be better players. Players will come who will use strategies you never thought it’s included in the mechanics. Some players are nervous because they know that their opponent can be cunning and sometimes will work with their wicked schemes. Nervous players are never complacent. Winning and losing is always a fifty-fifty chance. Some players battle it out competitively as if they’ll lose their life. They give too much commitment on the game because they have in their hearts the oath: “Quitting is never an option”. They’ll stick with the goal to win at life and love no matter how many deceptions they’ll encounter from those cunning evil witches. They preserve their personal faith and will never falter no matter how dazzling and captivating the movements of their opponents are for they know that it’s not the right and the most brilliant move. They know that they hold themselves accountable for their own moves in the game. For they know that at the end of the game, when everything's really over, in the eyes of the Great Judge, a winner always chooses the right path.