Feb 3, 2011-Break-Up Concepts

We had this candid talk with my roommates, Medz, Madonna and I. I suddenly shared with them my plan of finding myself- soul searching through the help of the RVM sisters. I told them the event at Sta. Clara, the time when I offered eggs for love life. That I really did not ask for that special someone to come into my life but that God (or Sta. Clara for that matter) will intercede to give me the courage to accept the realities of life. Naging okay naman sila sa idea ko.

We also discussed about our contrasting ideas on breaking up. Let’s take for example, Jef’s case: He broke up with his girlfriend because, according to sources- distance (malayo ka sa akin, at ganon din ako sa iyo). He seems to be the type who does not want to exert the necessary effort for a girl. I mean, I do not know that much but, somehow, I get a glimpse of how he is as a lover. He’s more of a career-oriented person as of now, which is always a good thing, for a GC person like me. Career-oriented men are always good. Yun nga lang, it’s just unfortunate for his girlfriend to have a career-oriented lover. Personally, a person romantically involved with someone should not be career-oriented too much to inundate his partner with loads of work and take her for granted. Career for me is never an excuse. Although, Medz has a point in saying that, if Jef will continue to have the relationship, much more the commitment with his girlfriend, considering his current status of being washed out by his career, kawawa ‘yung girl. It’s not healthy for any person to stick to a one-way relationship, ‘yung tipong isa lang sa kanila puts in the necessary effort to make the relationship work, much more ‘yung isa lang ang nagmamahal. It will never be called a relationship. That should hurt. Although, I’m really not in favor of the whole breaking-up concept, with the point Medz has taken, I would have to second the notion.

Sabi naman ni Ice, (sa isang bibihirang pagkakataon na mag-usap-usap sa grass ng Luneta) maybe, si Jef, hindi pa siya talaga na-iinlove ng todo para mag-effort siya ng todo sa isang girl. Career is more important for him than committing to love, for now, which, I would have to say is good for him. He’s still young and just starting to make a name for himself. Committing himself to a serious relationship would only be a hindrance for now.    
*bato-bato sa langit ang tamaan huwag magagalit.